demisexuality

we are bombarded with expecatations of how we should be in our sexuality: the media, society, our culture and culture/geography we find ourselves in, political & legal systems around us, our peer groups, the scenes we may choose to visit or be part of.

if we add on to this our indivual sexual experiences and history, this can become a melting pot of how, on an individual basis, to express our sexuality.

what if attraction for us was more based on trust and time getting to know one another? what if this was a non-negotiable? how would we traverse the world of modern dating, through the apps, the clubs, the social spaces? this article nicely breaksdown demisexuality:

https://www.bustle.com/articles/155277-what-does-demisexual-mean-here-are-6-signs-that-you-may-identify-as-demisexual